With a wedding comes months of planning, finding an exceptional venue, perfecting the guest list, and finalizing details to make certain that such a monumental day is as perfect as possible.

While all of these decisions are quite crucial for wedding planning-- who is going to be by your side, and what you are going to wear on your special day both top the list. 

At R. Hanauer, we believe it is essential for a gentleman to feel unique and his most authentic self, especially on his wedding day. Here are several creative ways for the groom to stand out during his nuptials.

Black tie affairs often bring to mind the image of a sharply styled ensemble featuring an elegant tuxedo, a freshly pressed white dress shirt, an exquisite cummerbund set, and finally, a pocket square to complete the look. How a gentleman dresses for a formal event speaks to his character; therefore, you should dress your very best when attending a formal, black tie event. Cocktail parties, galas, the opera, and black tie weddings are all grand occasions where the formal dress code is often enforced. At R. Hanauer, we celebrate the distinguished characteristics of an individual’s style, and we have selected several dynamic pairings of cummerbund sets and pockets squares that will highlight your own authentic style.

What to Wear to the Evening Wedding

For any gentleman in attendance of a formal, evening wedding a customary tuxedo is always appropriate. While many other guests will also be sporting a dashing tuxedo ensemble, you have the opportunity to stand out amongst the crowd with the perfect cummerbund set and pocket square. Our Green Fox Mask Cummerbund Set adds a dash of color to your look while also incorporating a classic traditional club that is both conversational and appropriate. The classic fox mask pattern featured on the cummerbund and matching bow tie might be subtle, but it will certainly add a one of a kind flare to your wedding attire. For an elegant event such as a wedding, the pocket square that accompanies the cummerbund set does not need to be flashy, instead, it should tie together the entire look. Our Green Whipstitch Pocket Square offers a glimpse of color that coordinates with the Green Fox Mask Cummerbund Set, while allowing the unique pattern on the cummerbund set to be the focal point of the formal ensemble. 

Green Fox Mask Cummerbund Set - CB2005, $185

Green Whipstitch Pocket Square - 123, $55

What to Wear to the New Year’s Eve Celebration

Ringing in the New Year calls for a look that is unique and eye catching. Silvers and golds are always stunning options for celebratory, formal events, and a glistening cummerbund set will certainly catch the eye of other guests at the party. Our Champagne Paisley Cummerbund Set would be an excellent choice for counting down the seconds into the new year. Pair it with a crisp, white pocket square, like our White Cotton Liberty, and you’ll have a look that will be talked about all year.

Champagne Paisley Cummerbund Set - CB1693, $170

White Cotton Liberty Pocket Square - 100, $25

What to Wear to the Winter Gala

Black tie galas and winter balls are the talk of the town during the yuletide season. In the south, debutante balls are often held during the winter months. These balls are formal events where young women are officially introduced into society, and they are often escorted by young gentleman into the affair. If a gentleman finds himself in attendance as a guest, or even an escort, black tie attire is a must. Our Burgundy Derwin Repp Cummerbund Set is festive for the season, while also being tasteful and classic. Pair it with our Burgundy Whipstitch Pocket Square, and you have a look that is timeless and suave, but perfect for formal winter events. 

Burgundy Derwin Repp Cummerbund Set - CB2654, $180

Burgundy Whipstitch Pocket Square - 120, $55

What to Wear to the Formal Fundraiser

Fundraisers and auctions are exciting events that are fun to dress for, but also benefit the community as well. When dressing for events such as these it is important to be comfortable, but to also have a sharp look that meets the dress code. Our Blue Ottoman Cummerbund Set would accompany a sleek navy tuxedo quite nicely. As the pattern on the cummerbund set is quite understated, our White Cotton Liberty Pocket Square offers a well-crafted look that is sophisticated and stylish.

Blue Ottoman Cummerbund Set - CB3776, $170

White Cotton Liberty Pocket Square - 100, $25

The Formal Christmas Party

A gentleman in attendance of a formal Christmas party, whether it is a social gathering or a business function, should always be dressed to the nines. While dressing appropriately and adhering to the dress code is important, there still is some leeway to incorporate some bolder and seasonal pieces into your formal attire. Our Red and Green Vero Dots Cummerbund Set is a vibrant piece that showcases a gentleman’s festive style and his classic taste. Our Red Whipstitch Pocket Square echoes the shade of red present in the cummerbund set and gives a slight nod to a candy cane, making it the perfect accessory to complete the lively ensemble.

Red and Green Vero Dots Cummerbund Set - CB2011, $225

Red Whipstitch Pocket Square - 114, $55

Gentlemen of Influence, Part II:

Randy and Randall Hanauer, The Men Behind the Bow Tie

Questions for Randy (from Randall):

Q: Dad, pretend we have never met and describe our family to me.  

Jayma and I were married in 1970. We did not have Randall until 1982, then we had June 1984. We live on a farm in Union County, North Carolina and are a close knit family because we lived on a farm. Randall and June always had chores to do. Mowing pasture , taking care of horses, cleaning the barn, helping around the house. I would leave the house on Tuesday morning and return Friday evening, traveling the southeast, calling on all my accounts. Jayma had a lot of responsibility taking care of Randall and June, horses, dogs, and barn cats. So, Randall and June had to help. Jayma and I were both raised on farms, and I think it is a great way to raise a family, kids grow up knowing they are responsible for their chores and animals.

Q: What was I like as a kid? Did you ever think I would be working with you in the future?

You were a very easy kid. You were very happy, entertained yourself, loved playing outside. I never imagined that you would be working with me in the business, I thought you would be working for an engineering company. I am sure glad it turned out this way.

Q: What’s the best part about working with family? The hardest part?

The best part is that you know family so well, you don’t have to be guarded about anything. You all have a common goal. Success for the company means success for the family. The hardest part for me is hoping a small apparel company can succeed for Randall in the future.

Q: When you created R. Hanauer in 1985, what did you want the company to look like 30 years down the road? And what do you hope the company looks like, 30 years from now (that would be 2047)?

I thought it would look very much like it does today. I did think that we would have a group of sales reps around the country selling our line, as opposed Randall and I doing all the selling, however, the way we do it is best. With all the changes in retail and consumers, I really believe there will always be a niche market for quality, tasteful products like we make here in Fort Mill.                                    

Q: What was the hardest thing about starting your own business?

Cash. It takes so long to build equity in a company. You cannot take anything out in the early years. You have to pay your employees and vendors on time, as well as your tax liabilities.

Q: If there’s one thing you wish people knew about R. Hanauer, what would it be?

I wish more people knew about R. Hanauer. Consumers tend to get hooked on big brand names that have a large assortment of products and a very large marketing budget. Most of these companies do not make anything, they source products all over the world. They receive the finished product in their warehouse and ship it. We design and color our cloth, we bring the fabric into our workshop. We have to make all the patterns to make all our different products. We cut the fabric and sew it. Then it gets inspected and packaged and shipped. We are involved in every step of the product.

Questions for Randall (from Randy):

Q: Randall, what it was like to grow up as Randall Hanauer, Jr. and what does your family look like now?

I was raised with traditional values and was taught the importance of hard work and personal accountability. Growing up on the farm was idyllic, my sister and I have such great memories of our childhood there.   Plus I had the benefit of access to the finest bowties!  Now I have a wife and a son, Randall III “Trey”, and we intend to instill the same values in him.

Q: What was I like as a dad? Did you ever think you would be working with me in the future?

You were (and still are) very hardworking and I’ve always admired you for that. I remember how excited we all were on Friday nights when you would get home and the four of us would spend the evening together- so happy! You have always been the epitome of a gentleman which set an example for me to follow. Growing up, and even into my college years, I didn’t really consider working for the family business.  You and mom were great about not pushing me into it. So I found my way here in 2008 and I can’t imagine doing anything else.  

Q: What’s the best part about working with family? The hardest part?

Gaining two years of professional experience outside of the family business was a prerequisite for me to begin working at R. Hanauer, and the difference between working for someone else as opposed to working with family is substantial. Looking back on those first two years before working at R. Hanauer, I had a job that I got paid to do well, but i didn’t have the added responsibility of driving the ship. Whereas, running a small family business requires the flexibility to wear many hats. Earlier in the spring we lost our only cutter (which was a big loss because it is a full-time position, and since everything is made-to-order, production stops without a cutter), so dad did all the cutting while I found a replacement and developed the new line--something we would typically do together. So we’ll negotiate my commission increase when you see sales skyrocket in the Fall!  

I would say the best part about working with family is our loyalty and dedication to common goals. An added bonus is that we get to take our dogs to work! The hardest part is that, because of our loyalty and dedication, certain business decisions can become personal, and conflicting views of those decisions can be difficult.

Q: What do you hope the company looks like, 30 years from now (that would be 2047)?

I want to grow this business into a valuable and desirable asset for a third generation to take over some day. In 30 years, if I’m not retired, I hope to be working with Trey (and/or another son or daughter?).

Q: If you could pick one of our bow ties to wear every day, what would it be?

I wouldn’t, but if I had to, it would be one of the Kensington Stripes because they are easy to coordinate with shirts and pocket squares and the English-woven cloth is durable (tightly woven, no beard abrasion) and ties a nice knot. If I had to choose just one, it would be the Red/Navy Kensington.

Q: If there’s one thing you wish people knew about R. Hanauer, what would it be?

I wish more people knew about R. Hanauer. We do everything ourselves: we design the patterns, make the bow ties and ship the finished products...all from our shop in Fort Mill.

Gentlemen of Influence, Part I:

Christopher James, The Man Behind the Blogger

Gentlemen of Influence is a 3-part blog series honoring the American gentleman. As the Gentleman's Bow Tie, R. Hanauer investigates what makes a gentleman in today's culture and hopes to share the qualities possessed by the gentlemen we know, to those who appreciate similar values. 

CONTEST: Share a picture of a gentleman in your life using the hashtag #RHGentleman and tag us @rhanauerbowties. One nominated gentleman will win a $150 gift card to R. Hanauer and a featured interview for Part III of our series. Ends Sunday, June 18th at midnight. 

If you follow fashion influencers, there’s a good chance you might be one of Mattie James’ 39,700 followers on Instagram, 19,000 followers on Twitter or one of her 8,000 subscribers on YouTube. Mattie James entered the blogging business in 2008, writing mostly about personal interests and experiences. In 2013, she started posting frequently across multiple digital platforms, which led to her booming business, MattieJames.com; an online blog where she shares everything from fashion finds to business advice. 

Atlanta-based designer, Christopher James, recalls the early days of his wife’s career. At the time, most bloggers were sharing personal thoughts and a few spontaneous photos and blogging was a diluted version of the massive industry it is today. From day one, Christopher and Mattie have partnered to fuel the success of MattieJames.com and in 2014, became partners in another important venture, parenthood. Daughter Maizah arrived in September and then there were three.

If you’re like me, you’ve wondered what it looks like to be married to a famous fashion blogger and how you constantly share your life with thousands of followers. We decided to shine the spotlight on Christopher to explore what it means to be a husband, a father, a business partner and a true gentleman in a world where photos are staged but life is still very real.

Q: Christopher, how did you feel when Mattie first wanted to start her blog?

 Christopher: When Mattie first started out around 2003, there were web blogs where people just write journals online. When she decided to take it seriously, I felt like it was a natural fit for her. I’ve always seen her as a person who can be on the same level as an Oprah Winfrey or a Martha Stewart. She can turn her life into a brand. That’s always been my focus, is to steer the brand in that direction. From day one, I’ve always tried to support that vision.

Q: Mattie, what are Christopher’s biggest strengths and how has he helped you become the successful business owner that you are today?

 Mattie: Sometimes, when you don’t believe in yourself, success is really hard to digest. I’m finally getting to that place where I feel like I could be that big. I’ve always looked at Chris as a leader of the company and there are so many things we want to accomplish individually, but also collectively. He is certainly the visionary out of the two of us and I’m the executor.

 He’s incredibly compassionate, which is something that I’m still trying to learn. He is very invested. He is just so supportive. I also think he’s really funny! He’s extremely funny which is one of the reasons why I love him and it gets me through my tough days. Even when I want to be frustrated with him, he’ll figure out a way to slip in a joke and it’ll make me laugh. It’s so easy to get caught up in self-importance or stress and you need somebody to slip a joke to help you realize you shouldn’t take yourself so seriously.

Q: How does your family fit in with the blogging business?

 M: For whatever reason, we all thought it would be easy. Starting a business would be easy; getting married to the love of your life would be easy; having a cute baby would be easy. These things are blessings and we definitely don’t take them for granted, but they are much, much harder than we expected and it makes me appreciate them even more. I’m really excited that I have somebody that is a creative and understands that this dream of making this blog and that it isn’t just a pie in the sky kind of dream.

 C: We are complete opposites in that Mattie is the extrovert and I am very much the introvert but, in that, we have our own set of skills that allow us to act as a cohesive and very perceptive team. Mattie’s strength is that she is a dreamer but she also has the capacity to achieve anything she sets her mind to. I’m really good at plans, strategy, logistics and those sorts of things. I think, in helping build the brand over the last seven years, it is working together has allowed her to reach the level of success where she is now. In my opinion, it’s only a starting point for her.

Q: Let’s talk about Christopher as a dad to Maizah (age 2). M: Chris is just the most amazing dad because he’s just so invested. They literally have the same face and the same temperament so it’s just like being with his mini-me. He’s so hands on, he makes sure she doesn’t limit herself and he always reinforces that. Sometimes she’ll get frustrated and says “Oh dad, I can’t” and he always reinforces her with “Yes you can!” and it’s immediately evident in her behavior. As a little girl, to have that kind of encouragement, support and love from your father is so important. They play, they laugh, and they can just sit in silence and watch TV together. He just brings out the light in her and it fills me with such pride. He makes me a better mother if I’m being honest.

 C: I take my responsibility as a father very seriously. Mattie was the conduit to us receiving this blessing so if I can honor her, it’s the least I can do. Mattie actually had an emergency C-section and was close to being in a very bad situation on the operating table. It’s the least that I can do to try to support her in parenthood. It’s not about just being a father; it’s about sharing the load of ushering a child into adulthood. I want to do everything that I can to the best of my ability whether it’s parenthood, this business or our friendship as a couple.

Q: People argue that technology is undermining meaningful human interaction and impacting our relationships. What does a modern gentleman look like and how does Christopher embody that?

 M: I really think that Chris embodies the epitome of a gentleman. A lot of times we associate being a gentleman with only style or what’s shown in the movies. I think it’s a respectful man who has a gentle yet intentional approach. If you are gentle but intentional, like Chris is, you receive the respect you give.

 C: For me, a gentleman would be a man’s man but a man’s man who is in touch with his emotional self and his vulnerability. Also to be courteous and open doors, pull out chairs or stand up while people are being seated. Someone who’s adept at handling themselves in multiple situations, whether you’re at a sporting event or church or just out with the guys; to handle all situations with respect and command respect with your approach and your attitude.

Q: Christopher, if there’s one lesson that you want Maizah to learn from you and carry with her through life, what is it?

 C: That’s to approach every situation from the point of view of love because, if she does that, then the rest will take care of itself.

To keep up with both Mattie and Christopher, follow Mattie James on her website, Instagram, Twitter, YouTube or Facebook.

 *Christopher is wearing our Vero Dots Bow Tie, $70.00.

Welcome to R. Hanauer! Did you know every single one of our bow ties are handmade in our Fort Mill, South Carolina workshop? Working in a small family business requires the flexibility to wear many hats, and when the cutter is out sick, you can even find founder Randy on the cutting room floor.

Here's a behind the scenes look at how the best tying bow ties come to life.

Founder Randy Hanauer on the cutting room floor.

Cummerbund sets in creation.

One of our talented seamstresses, Debbie, crafting a bow tie.

Ingredients for the perfect handmade bow tie: fine fabrics and threads.

We're proud to offer excellent customer service, all out of the same Fort Mill workshop you see above. If you are unsure about a color or design, just ask. We would be happy to send a free swatch! E-mail us at support@bowties.com or, if you're old fashioned like us, give us a call, 800-514-9707.

At R. Hanauer, we are proud to hand-select each fabric for our premium bow ties and accessories. And we have a particularly interesting story behind a silk pinup fabric we've had in our collection since 2017. 

Who Are the Springmaid Pinup Girls?

The “Springmaid Girls” bow ties, pocket squares and cummerbund sets are inspired by a fascinating figure from our hometown of Fort Mill, South Carolina, “Colonel” Elliot White Springs (via SCETV).

After serving in World War I and writing the successful novel Warbirds: The Diary of an Unknown Aviator, Elliot Springs landed in New York as a magazine journalist. Shortly after, his father convinced him to return to South Carolina to help with the family textile business, Springs Mills.

The business suffered during The Great Depression, but World War II created a new demand for textiles, helping Springs Mills get back on its feet. 

After the war, Colonel Springs decided to produce finished goods but realized they were an inherently uninteresting product to sell. He was faced with a new challenge - persuading American households to purchase Springmaid sheets and pillow cases.

A Colorful Ad Campaign to the Rescue

From the 1930s until late 1950s, Springs ran a creative advertising campaign to increase sales of his bed linens.

Promoting benefits like wind and flame resistance, the advertisements featured women posed in flirtatious positions, often in the direct path of a gust of wind. The ads were culturally relevant, sexually charged and used humor as a neutralizer. 

Photo via Envision the American Dream

The strategy worked.

The campaign made national headlines, drastically improved sales of Springmaid sheets. 

The “Springmaids” still live on today inside marketing textbooks and on our very own "Springmaid Girls" bow ties, ties, safety masks and cummerbund sets.